The Way Out of Lostness: Take Effective Action

The concept of lostness is more than a mere feeling. Human beings are experiencing lostness on an unprecedented scale. We have more access to information and more access to resources than we ever have as a human race, so how is it that many of us are floundering more than ever right now?

Understanding the Root: A Call for Effective Action

When we are lost, we are starving for effective action. Being lost is not merely a wandering sensation, but instead it is actually a deep longing for purposeful engagement. The cure to lostness? Taking effective action to address concerns—whether they are your own concerns or the concerns of others.

The Vital Role of Effective Action in Being Human

Effective action is the heartbeat of what it means to be human. It goes beyond merely existing; it is the lifeline that sustains us as individuals and as a collective human race. At its core, effective action is defined as an activity that addresses concerns in a manner that supports well-being. Effective action gives meaning to our lives.

Existence Hinges on Effectiveness

Without effective action, we will cease to exist. This might seem like an extreme statement, but it is a fundamental truth that underscores the essence of all human beings. Take, for example, the simple act of feeding ourselves. If we are not effective in this basic function, our existence is at stake. 

Driving Force for Harmony and Flow

Effective action is not just a concept; it is THE driving force that produces harmony and flow in our lives. It aligns with our core human concern for existence. To be effective is to be alive, and finding purpose, fulfillment, and a path forward in life is intricately woven into our ability to take effective action.

Key to Overcoming Lostness: Take Effective Action

Lostness, by definition, is the lack of effective action. Therefore, the key to overcoming lostness is to take effective action. When we feel adrift and lost, it is a call to engage in purposeful activities that address concerns of ourselves and others and restore the flow of effectiveness in our lives.

What does it look like to take effective action?

  • Get in action. If you don’t have a job, get one. And if you aren’t sure where to start, find a local mission-driven business or NGO. They often need a lot of help and generally have part-time and full-time positions available. 

  • Find alignment with your core values. Have a job but still feeling lost? Apply for a job at a company that has a mission you believe in, even if it means taking a pay cut. Taking action toward something that aligns with your core values can help you find momentum again.

  • Set a goal and achieve it. Set a goal in one of the areas of your life and start taking the action to achieve it. Sign up for a 5K or half-marathon. Say yes to your friend  

  • Start saying yes. If a friend asks you to meet them for a coffee, say yes, even if you don’t feel like going. Buy tickets to go to a show at a local venue, even if you haven’t heard of the band before. Buy tickets to take a trip to a place you have always wanted to go. Start saying yes, get in action. 

  • Get certified. Take a course, complete a certification, explore a speciality. Take action to explore a skill that could address concerns for others and build your identity in the world. If you aren’t sure where to start, google “certifications in your city” and see what comes up. Read through descriptions and try something that piques your attention. 

Breakdown and Dignity: The Consequences of Ineffectiveness

It is a stark reminder that our very being hinges on our ability to act effectively. Everything we teach in our courses and content is geared towards providing practical how-tos for getting into effective action.

Conclusion: Embrace the Power of Effective Action

Being in effective action isn’t just a good choice; it is a necessity. Lack of effective action leads to breakdown in life, depression, lostness and a loss of our human dignity. To cure lostness, embrace the power of taking action and addressing concerns with purpose and meaning. And if it feels overwhelming, start small. You just need to take the next step, and then the next one.

 
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